Most of us can make easily compliments to our friends . When it comes to his own person, take from where are not, kind words! How do you react when you get a compliment on how you look or what you wearing? Compliments make you slightly uncomfortable or you think that are unfair?
For those who have forget their pink glasses somewhere, it's time to designing an intensive acceptance program, self-esteem and love for yourself.
You must see yourself well, before waiting confirmation from others.
The first step is health, then we can talk about beauty. It would not hurt to acknowledge from time to time what fascinating machine we have in possession. Our body is a wonderful invention, a complex system that we do not really know it. Do not wait for serious illnesses, accidents or other tragedies to begin to love your body
Instead on focusing on aesthetic surgery, work on your self-esteem. How much time do you spend daily weighing yourself, comparing yourself with other women, measuring up and studying in the mirror? The answer you know it better. But you thought what you could do all this time? You are certainly wasting a lot of time... you deprive yourself from a lot of satisfaction. Other people laugh, have fun, love, work, while some of us create obsession on muscles of the abdomen.
How are you aware that the images seen on television, in films and magazines are not real?
Not even celebrities - labeled in the media as "perfect bodies" are not happy on how the show entirely! Real difference between us and celebrities is credulity: we buy what they sell to us.
My pink glasses
I have a hunch that even if perfection itself would be achieved, even then you would find some standards impossible to establish.